Hubby's Home

He's been home a week now. YAY! And Valentine's Day is right around the corner. I'd tell ya'll what we got each other, but I'd rather not. I'm actually thinking about shutting down this site. It's hard to keep up with, and I have another one. I had to lock up Facebook pretty tight because of some drama, and I don't want that drama to leak over to here. So, that's pretty much all that is going on. We are going to be getting enough money from taxes to come home. We will be spending equal amounts of time in each of our home towns, with a few nights in Atlanta. And I'll say it now, and won't say it again. If you don't like the dates or amount of time we're spending in one place, you can go ahead and get right over it because the dates are non-negotiable and in order to spend time with everyone, and have equal time with everyone that is just how our time is being divided. I'm sure someone is bound to get their panties in a wad, but frankly I don't give a damn. We don't HAVE to go home, we could easily stay here, or for even cheaper go somewhere else. I'd rather spend that time with the hubby and not deal with anyone's bullshit, as it marks the end of his time here, and means he'll be deploying soon afterward. And it is some times cheaper to fly HERE than it to leave here. I mean, we have bills too...I don't know how people expect us to pay all our bills, food, gas, and then spend a shit ton on airline tickets to come home. It's humanly impossible. And people just don't seem to understand that. Anyways, that's all for now. Like I said, we'll be home for a couple weeks, but our time is already set for where we will be and when, so nobody can ask for more time, or for us to change the dates. We won't do it. And I will tell you right now, that if anyone tries to make a big deal about this, or throws a fit I will go off. Like I said, we don't HAVE to go home. But we are, and we have made plans to see everyone while there.

Welp, Happy New Years, really late

Yikes, I can't believe I haven't updated this year, and we're almost a month into 2011.

January came all to quickly, and the LT had to leave shortly after the new year. He's in California for a month, right now they're in "the box" and were not allowed to have cell phones, so I haven't spoken to him since Jan 12, I think. He should be out of "the box" soon.

I think I struggled more with him being gone when he was allowed to call, but was too busy to actually do it. I hated knowing that he had his cell phone, and would have been able to call, but he was just way to busy and wanted to sleep, instead of talk to me. And now that he isn't able to call, it hasn't really bothered me. The first day maybe, and now that it's been nearly 2 weeks, it is. I think this will be the longest we've gone with out talking. When he was in BOLC in Oklahoma he went to the field for a week, and left his phone with me, and that was hell, especially being in a strange place, where I couldn't leave the hotel room. But now I am able to come and go when I want, and have friends to do things with. Back in Oklahoma, we weren't married, so I didn't have a military ID and couldn't go to the commissary or the PX and I couldn't leave post. Anyways, now I'm just over this whole not being able to hear from him, and I know he's alright, because no news is good news, but I miss him. But I know this is good for me. As it is helping me get ready for when he leaves. Who knows when I'll hear from him, or how often I will hear from him. I hope daily, but that just might not happen. So while the soldiers are off training for the deployment, the spouses are home, training for the deployment in their own ways.

Not much else to write about, just figured I'd update ya'll, and let ya'll know what's going on. A whole lot of nothing, lol!