Only the 5th day of October and I’ve already missed 1 day…Go figure, I never claimed to be a great blogger, and I think I’ve even stated a few million times how horrible my memory is…Oh well, we press on…
Behold you are handsome, my beloved! Yes, pleasant! (Song of Solomon 1:16a)
We all crave appreciation. We want to know that we are valued and loved. Early love letters probably reflected our admiration, but if we're not careful, our spouse will forget why we were drawn to him. If you still have any of your old love letters, re-read them for
clues to deepen your current level of appreciation for your spouse.
When we spend time criticizing our husbands, we lose time that could be spent admiring them. As you consider various ways to encourage your husband, ask, "How can I admire him?"
Does your husband know that you think he is attractive? What was one of the characteristics in your husband that first drew you to him? Was it a physical
characteristic, or something else?
Was it his gentle, compassionate eyes? Kindness or concern for others? An easy-going confidence? A steadiness that comes from trusting in the Lord? Strength of character in a culture that lacks integrity? Do you see at least a glimpse of that characteristic in him today? Whatever it is, tell him!
My husband is pretty much the same man I met and married, just a tad bit more mature, only a tad ;)
I can’t pinpoint what exactly it was that made me fall in love with him. But he was just so sweet, and understanding, and not judgmental about my past. He accepted me for who I am, imperfections and ALL!
And he’s still so sweet and understanding, and still doesn’t judge me for my past.
And in turn, I do the same.
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